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  • doctor title

    Posted by Drthekra on April 13, 2023 at 1:42 am

    I keep getting texts and emails from recruiters who reach out to me on first name basis for locums position, etc.
     
    I feel annoyed by this. Sure if I knew the person or were introduced somehow through a personal connection, first name basis would be fine. But, in a professional setting where I don’t know this person, I still expect people to use the title “Doctor.” 
     
    Anyone else feel this way? Or am I over reacting here. 
     
    On a side note, has anyone heard of this outfit called simon med? 

    y.rajshekar replied 1 year, 5 months ago 21 Members · 25 Replies
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  • vuonganhhmuk112_783

    Member
    April 13, 2023 at 5:44 am

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  • skysdad

    Member
    April 13, 2023 at 5:47 am

    That’s really strange and atypical. But it wouldn’t bother me.

    • Unknown Member

      Deleted User
      April 13, 2023 at 6:04 am

      I only answer to “Master” or “Your Majesty”

      • elenavioleta

        Member
        April 13, 2023 at 6:13 am

        Just seems to me to be the continued watering down of our stature.

        Then again, were just providers

        Later bro

      • jun52.park

        Member
        April 13, 2023 at 6:21 am

        Quote from striker79

        I only answer to “Master” or “Your Majesty”

         
        I don’t even turn my head unless I hear Mahatma Rad

      • aldoctc

        Member
        April 13, 2023 at 6:43 am

        Quote from striker79

        I only answer to “Master” or “Your Majesty”

         
        Mine is “Lord God King”  🙂
         
        Similar situation many years ago when my med school alma mater sent a letter asking for donations.  Salutation was “Dear Mr. [my last name]”   Seriously?  Sending a letter to med school grads with that salutation?  
         
        Have heard that in UK commonwealth countries, surgeons are addressed as “Mr.”  Anyone confirm? 
         

        • ranweiss

          Member
          April 13, 2023 at 7:04 am

          I care if it’s at work…..I’ve had a few strange encounters with non physician staff calling me by my first name…It’s typically someone who is older than me. I don’t correct them but it’s annoying. 
           
          Outside of work I could care less. I do remember as a kid my friends all called my dad ( or anyone elses dad that was a physician, dentist etc ), “Dr. So and so” and not ‘Mr.’ – I don’t do that with my son’s friends, seems kinda silly to me , but idk. 
           
          As far as recruiters go, that is even more strange and I would absolutely correct them.

        • g.giancaspro_108

          Member
          April 13, 2023 at 9:03 am

          That is correct.
           
           

          Quote from Dr. Joseph Mama

          Have heard that in UK commonwealth countries, surgeons are addressed as “Mr.”  Anyone confirm? 

          • DanielQuilli

            Member
            April 13, 2023 at 1:59 pm

            Its unprofessional. Its hip and cool to act like oh who cares about proper use of the doctor title, but its lazy and sloppy in a professional setting.

    • tdetlie_105

      Member
      April 13, 2023 at 3:52 pm

      Quote from Teedevil

      That’s really strange and atypical. But it wouldn’t bother me.

       
      Yes atypical.  Even when I respond with my 1st name, recruiters still use Dr.

      • Unknown Member

        Deleted User
        April 13, 2023 at 4:05 pm

        yeah atypical, but I doesn’t bother me. Only time I want to be called Doctor is by patients because it helps remind me of my role and the responsibility I have to be professional and not get pissed off at them if they are being stupid. 

        • Melenas

          Member
          April 13, 2023 at 4:46 pm

          I think it is important to be addressed as doctor. 
          1) you earned it.
          2) the title used to be respected, as it should be.
          3) once we start accepting that we are just average joe and should be called by first name and become buddies with the techs, nurses and admins, they can simply replace you with PAs and NPs. 
          4) I think part of the erosion of the respects for doctors and mid levels more powerful is because we have given up the title. 
          Im not saying, I walk around with a big head but it is a title you worked for an earned for. Just like a senator or president. No one says, mr obama they say president obama. 

          • Drthekra

            Member
            April 13, 2023 at 8:52 pm

            Quote from peehdee

            I think it is important to be addressed as doctor. 
            1) you earned it.
            2) the title used to be respected, as it should be.
            3) once we start accepting that we are just average joe and should be called by first name and become buddies with the techs, nurses and admins, they can simply replace you with PAs and NPs. 
            4) I think part of the erosion of the respects for doctors and mid levels more powerful is because we have given up the title. 
            Im not saying, I walk around with a big head but it is a title you worked for an earned for. Just like a senator or president. No one says, mr obama they say president obama. 

            I agree. Well, it didn’t help the email was from one of those newfangled corporate groups. It just rubbed me the wrong way. Damn kids and theirs mbas.

            • Uro2Rads

              Member
              April 13, 2023 at 9:12 pm

              How about if you apply to a job and the person contacting you is another rad. How would you prefer to be addressed? First name or Dr.?

              • andy.lippman_422

                Member
                April 13, 2023 at 9:40 pm

                First name only. If anyone refers to themselves as Dr. X, across any specialty, unless you’re the chair of a department, I get really rubbed the wrong way.

            • khodadadi_babak89

              Member
              April 14, 2023 at 4:54 am

              Quote from loggedin

              Quote from peehdee

              I think it is important to be addressed as doctor. 
              1) you earned it.
              2) the title used to be respected, as it should be.
              3) once we start accepting that we are just average joe and should be called by first name and become buddies with the techs, nurses and admins, they can simply replace you with PAs and NPs. 
              4) I think part of the erosion of the respects for doctors and mid levels more powerful is because we have given up the title. 
              Im not saying, I walk around with a big head but it is a title you worked for an earned for. Just like a senator or president. No one says, mr obama they say president obama. 

              I agree. Well, it didn’t help the email was from one of those newfangled corporate groups. It just rubbed me the wrong way. Damn kids and theirs mbas.

               
               
              we all worked as hard as humans can to qualify ourselves. We get to be addressed as “Doctor” to recognize that. 
              There are those – businessmen, NPs, PAs who would like to elevate themselves by not recognizing your (in truth) superior training. 
              Don’t let them do that.
              (in social settings with techs who are good friends, I preferred my first name, but otherwise, it was always “dr.’ Also lets patients in the room know who is in charge. ) 

              • buckeyeguy

                Member
                April 15, 2023 at 7:12 am

                The scam education industry was the real first blow to this, when all the PhDs who are insecure (and paid far more than they were ever worth) demanded they be called “doctors.” Lest anyone forget

                • Unknown Member

                  Deleted User
                  April 15, 2023 at 9:06 am

                  Advanced non medical scholars have been called doctor since the Middle Ages. Docere, scholar or teacher. Before medical doctors were a thing.

                  • Unknown Member

                    Deleted User
                    April 15, 2023 at 9:12 am

                    Its important in the professional setting. There are hierarchies of responsibility. If a headhunter I didnt know approached me with my first name it would probably be a short conversation. If it was another physician, interviewer or interviewee, I would use Dr until they invited me to address them otherwise.

                    There were a couple of well respected docs I grew up around. I was over 50, and a physician for at least 25 yrs before I could call them by first name, no matter how often they insisted.

                    • ruszja

                      Member
                      April 15, 2023 at 2:03 pm

                      The only one who calls me docta is the wife of my phillipino dentist.

                    • satyanar

                      Member
                      April 15, 2023 at 2:33 pm

                      You know how to say fu in Tagalog fw?
                       
                      yes docta
                       
                      Just some Filipina nurse levity. 

                    • kmh0667

                      Member
                      April 15, 2023 at 8:35 pm

                      Chill out, its ok

                    • Unknown Member

                      Deleted User
                      April 15, 2023 at 9:09 pm

                      Lol.
                      In my personal experience growing up in an ethnically diverse area, Filipinos are like Armenians – a warm and hardy people, no better friend, no worse enemy.

                    • ruszja

                      Member
                      April 16, 2023 at 1:08 am

                      Quote from Thread Enhancer

                      You know how to say fu in Tagalog fw?

                      yes docta

                      Just some Filipina nurse levity. 

                      Lol. Possibly true. The tagalog version of ‘Bless your heart’.

                      The only time I use ‘this is Dr __ from radiology’ is when I call an ER.

                      A recruiter who doesn’t know me addressing me by first name only at first contact would strike me as odd.

                      There are a few people really rabid about the doctor thing: Ed. D’s, chiroquacks , pastors and NPs.

                    • y.rajshekar

                      Member
                      April 16, 2023 at 9:05 pm

                      I usually see me addressed by first name when it is a sloppy recruiter using computer to spam multiple rads. Better yet, some come with name space empty. Not that I would consider one of those mass emails in this job market.